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Typsy Alchemist

The Typsy Alchemist is a bar/lounge in uptown Dallas. I highly recommend when in the area, check this place out. They put on a full show with drinks. The bartenders are awesome. The drinks are reasonably priced around $11-$15 on average for a drink. Happy hour starts at 5pm to 7pm. The music and drinks are a place for a great evening unwinding after work or on weekends for fun.

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Vision Board

20181216_160534Vision Boards are great ideas to kick off your new year. However, I only accomplished cutting out images and pictures in 4 hours. Vision board parties are great ideas for social gatherings and flowing ideas off of one another. Friends chat and have lunch instead of focusing on the vision for the new year.

My vision board will be completed by the weekend. This will be the best yet due to turning 50 next year.  50? OMG. Where did the time fly? Did I complete the vision from my youth? Mmmm I absolutely completed some of my vision from my youth. I completed 3 degrees and working on my 4th and final, raised great children without any hiccups, and have a wonderful relationship with God. What’s next?

Maybe I will take up a new hobby, move out of state, teach at a university,  start a business, and sow seed into someone’s life. I’m not sure. But I know that it is ok to dream. Plan for 2019. Create a dream board with something that only God can provide. Go rogue. Dream big. I will have a completed board by January 1, 2019 to rock in the new year. Do not forget to display it on your wall and dream on it daily with prayer. Remember,  God will do it.



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Fake it Until You Make it

In Southern California’ wine country lays a small consignment shop called Plato’s Closet. It has designer purses slightly used, such as Michael Kors, Coach, and Kate Spade at reasonable prices. It’s a Boujee girls best kept secret. If you like quality clothing, hand bags, and shoes at a reasonable price, with a soul food restaurant across the street (Phat and Juicy Soul Food Restaurant, and wine tasting all in one day, visit Temecula. Ladies, wear your designer hand bag and shoes while sipping wine in the lovely city of Temecula. Be boujee at Plato’s Closet.

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Yes, ladies and gentlemen, Italian men love black women.  The Bravo series, “To Rome with Love”, appears to be very interesting.  There are several African American women ranging from their 20s to 50s looking for love.  Some of the women seem desperate for a man.  They are a bit bold by starting the conversation first, pushing up on the men, and telling their private business to total strangers.  This is a show that shows black women in a thirsty situation.  The women on the show act as if there is not a single man left on earth.  American black women going to Rome to find a decent man?  Okay, it has to be better than this in American.  Maybe it is not.

If I was single, I am not sure I would date anyone right now.  There are too many men with bad credit, no jobs or part-time jobs, and bad attitudes like someone owes them something.  Is that what American men are about?  So let me repeat this.  Black women are now so desperate that we are traveling the world to find a boyfriend or a husband?  That is sad.  What is the state of men in America?  The ladies in the series are accomplished and beautiful.  Why do accomplished black women are in need to travel to another country for a date?

The state of the black woman is at war with the men in America.  They can not handle us because we are educated and not very tolerable of nonsense that some of these men are trying to feed us.  The women in the show appear to not be stereotyped thus far.  However, this was the first episode.  We know that on reality tv, the African American women have Must Do’s.  Yes, I said MUST DOs.  They must be loud.  They must show some type of stereotype.  They must be angry.  They must argue.  And they must have a head full of bought hair.  Are we doing all of this for men, other women, or ourselves?

The reality series show African American women that want to fall in love regardless of race.  They are fed up with black men and American men.  The women are looking for love in another country because, in Rome, black women are queens.  This leads to the question, why are we not queens in American?  This is definitely on another topic. But anywhere, I should stick to the topic of the series.  I think you should watch it and see if you see yourself in any of the women.  If so, you may need to want to contact your therapist.  I will continue to watch the reality show to see the outcome.  #toromewithlove