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Being in your 40’s is the best time of your life. You have learned enough to not make irresponsible mistakes and you should be at the top of your game in your craft.  But what about the exterior?  Yaaasss, ladies in their 40’s are also concerned about our appearance.  A 40 year old diva does not wear clothes that make her look 20. A 40 year old diva wears clothes that make her look FIRST CLASS. Unfortunately,  there are 40 year old women who try to wear hair, shoes, and clothes to attempt at being 20. They are fighting the natural aging process. There are days that even I wonder, “should I wear that? ” If you question it, do not wear it.

If you want others to view you as mature and intelligent,  you must look mature and intelligent.  Maturity and intelligence are sexy. Being mature and intelligent does not  mean you should go out and purchase polyester pants and become a golden girl. It simply mean, dress to be CLASSY. Anybody can look like a project princess (There is not anything wrong with living in the projects. I am just not a fan of living there on purpose). But looking like you have class, takes work.

Routine for woman over 40 consist of: #1 comb your hair daily. Please make sure you have a comb in your purse. #2 Do not wear exotic make up. Adult women look like birds with too much color on their eyes. Stop it. #3 If you have hair extensions or wigs, please do not wear them really long. It is not attractive.  Looking like a person that belongs on a corner is not lady like. #4 Keep a manicure and pedicure. If you cannot afford it, do it yourself.  Make Saturday morning,  spa day. #5 Do not wear tight clothes, especially a size too small. I will leave that to your imagination.  It is not pretty. 

Remember divas,  40 is fabulous.  Let’s get it in divas.

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The So Cal Life

Ladies and Gentlemen, Southern California is the best place to live in the United States.  Yes, I said it.  We have great weather.  Unfortunately, the East Coast appears to be in blizzard-like conditions currently.  There is no need for a sweater in Southern California.   Southern California has beautiful beaches, amusement parks, two professional basketball teams, two hockey teams, two professional football teams, three professional baseball teams, Hollywood nightlife, Beverly Hills shopping, and great weather.

There is not a need on the West Coast for bomber jackets and snow boots.  On the East Coast and the North, diva’s can not look great and divalicious as we can in Los Angeles.  We can wear our sandals with pedicured toes.  Our hair is neatly displayed without a hat, scarf, and baseball cap because it is cold.  Do not misunderstand, I love New York City.  It is beautiful.  However, it is cold.  Anything below 50 degrees is ridiculous.  Come visit us in Southern California.  You may not want to return back to the North Pole.  I apologize East Coast for your weather.  I will catch you in the summer months at Macy’s in New York.